Boring admirers There is a stereotype, according to which people begin to stir up in spring and try to find their love or at least an intrigue. Life shows us, that people display activity in the sphere of love all year round. That is why if you are an attractive woman or a handsome man, you should always be ready to passing acquaintances and pick-up. It is often very difficult to understand what to do in such situations and to select an appropriate behaviour pattern. You know nothing about a person, who wants to get acquainted with you. You may judge about him/her only by appearance and first impressions, which are very often deceptive. Ordinary people, who lack communication and friends, will never understand your problems. They dream to appear in your situation, because they think that it is wonderful, when many people notice you and want to get acquainted with you. They don't understand how boring these situations may be and that if they repeat very often, you become irritable and can display rudeness towards these too active admirers. If you are really sick and tired of constant molestation and want to learn to get rid of these people quickly, we can give a few effective tips. The first way to settle this problem is to explain everything sincerely to your new admirer. Thus you will make this person understand everything and your conscience will be unclouded. If it is very difficult for you to hold such conversations in person, you may simply send an SMS, where you can expound everything want. You may suggest this person to get acquainted with one of your friends in order to divert his/her attention from your personality. You may back your words by a photo of your friend in your mobile telephone or laptop. If your new acquaintance is reluctant to meet anyone except you, you may offer your friendship. Tender admirers often become good friends. They can support you in an emergency. Tender feelings will never let this person leave you in trouble. You can go for a walk with this new-made friend, go on hike together talk about different things, etc. All tips mentioned above are suitable for you only if this person really deserves respect. But if you think that this person makes you irritable and evokes negative emotions in you, you must apply other strategies. A classical example of making this person understand that he/she shouldn't disturb you is not to answer the phone calls. Though this method is old and worn, it is very effective and doesn't require any special actions from you. Gradually this person will leave his/her attempts to attract your attention and understand that it is useless. You can also load this person with your problems. Tell him/her about all your troubles in detail; complain about your relatives and friends, take this person to do shopping together and so on. These prosaic problems will destroy your romantic image in this person's consciousness. You may also resort to a cruel and embarrassing way of getting rid from your admirer. You may stat an affair with another person before his/her eyes. But you must be very careful with this method, because it can produce opposite effect. Your admirer can become even more active and treat your new man as a competitor, and will fight for your heart. |