If you beloved person has become an invalid Our life is very complicated. We have a lot of problems and troubles. Some of our problems are objective and we have to solve them, which often takes much time and effort. Besides, we also have farfetched and imaginary problems, which we create by ourselves and complain about them to our friends and relatives. We often lack time to look around and compare our life with life of people around us. The fact that we don't notice, or don't want to notice other people's problems makes us think that we are unhappiest in this world. We have time to see only our own problems and troubles and are sure that only our conditions are not very favourable for normal living. As we don't see other people's problems, we think that they don't have problems at all. The best way to take a sober view of things is to look around and see how many people are suffering now, to evaluate their problems and assess their situation. If we compare our problems with those of some special categories of people, they will seem minor and insignificant to us. Have you guessed, what people we mean here? Here we mean invalids. Just imagine for a second, though it is very terrible, your beloved and dearest person in the world to become an invalid. It is very hard and unpleasant to imagine indeed, but do it just for a second. What would you do and how will you act in this situation? Think about it and make a virtual choice to understand yourself, your moral values and qualities. Talk to your consciousness. It is sometimes very useful. So, imagine that your beloved person has become disabled. There can be only two variants of outcome. Either you leave this person and begin to build new relationship or you stay with this person and devote all your life to him/her. You may turn to your friends and relatives for a piece of advice but yours will be last word. Your acquaintances and friends can only advise you how to act, but they don't have a moral right to criticize you, if they haven't gone through such a situation. Follow your inner voice and listen to yourself. If you really love a person, you won't hesitate and stay with this person. Love in need is love indeed. |