If your beloved person is ill People date each other and want to meet their true love. They attribute this feeling only to positive emotions and don't want to think that love can test the strength of our feelings. When everything is OK, nothing seems to spoil our relationships with dear people. We enjoy our relationships and life in general and prefer not to think about all possible difficulties we can face some day. It is very easy to love a person, when life is unclouded, but when it comes to difficulties, our love can be tested. Have you ever thought about the frankness of your love? Have you ever wanted to verify it? Even when love gives us the most pleasant moments of our lives, we can feel doubts about its sincerity. There is a famous proverb "A friend in need is a friend indeed". The sense of this proverb can also be fully applied to love and people in love. What will you do if you learn that your beloved person is ill? Of course, there are different diseases. When we offer you to answer this question, we don't mean here a cold or flu. We mean serious diseases, those which accompany a person all his/her life. All of us want better life and we dream about happy and successful future. We work hard; make our career to attain this goal. Even if we concede that we can face different hardships and troubles, we tend to avoid these unpleasant thoughts in order to go on. Hope for better life helps us live. Hope is our main incentive which gives us energy to cope with difficulties, because when we go through a hard period of life, we think that it is temporary, that it will pass and that life will inevitably change for the better. Another case is when we find out that our beloved person has fallen ill with some chronic disease. Suddenly you understand that there is no hope for your happy future with this person. You must either leave him/her or stay and bear your cross till the end of your days. Leaving a person seems at first sight the easiest way of such a situation. But those who have conscience won't be able to forget about their rash action and will suffer. Remembrances will come again and again and will prevent a betrayer from normal living. Staying with an ill person is a conscious choice and it tells about high spiritual level of a person, who commits this deed but people who agree to stay with a sick person don't fully realize all difficulties, which they will face in future. At first people don't even hesitate and take this burden but very soon they understand that they really have no hope and have to put up with this bitterness forever. As you see, our life is sometimes very hard and puts us to the test. We must live our life with dignity, so that we could look people in the eye without feeling ashamed. |