Love and social status He loves her, she loves him. He is a prosperous businessman or a rich mother's boy and she is a poor naïve girl. They love each other very much despite all obstacles and difficulties. They overcome these difficulties heroically and at last live their happy life. This simple and unpretentious plot can be found in many books, plays and soap operas. This problem is still very topical in some societies. In advanced countries people are more free and usually don't bother themselves with these trifles. The main reason which prevents people from being together is the absence of mutual understanding, lack of affection and quarrels. However some noble families still follow family traditions and don't agree to become related with commoners. If you are an ordinary person, you are likely to avoid such love problems. People usually get acquainted with each other in the street, in public transport, during their vacation, etc. Very reach and noble people are separated from this world. They don't use public transport and spend their vacation in those places, where they are absolutely unavailable to the world. But still, there are some places, where such fatal meetings can occur. They are universities, as students belong to all social groups; theatres, opera houses, exhibitions, because all people want to enjoy art. As you see, though this fatal meeting is hardly probable, you have a chance to become a hero of your own novel. If you have met a person to be your life companion, but your or his/her relatives object, you understand all intricacies of this situation. At first it seems very romantic, as it reminds you all these numerous books and soap operas and you begin to feel your exclusiveness and significance, no matter whether you are reach or poor. Have you noticed that despite all similarities and parallels, your situation is not so romantic? Novels, films and plays are very far from reality and can't be regarded to be your life guides. You should follow the voice of your heart and act according to your intuition. But at first you must determine if the game is worth the candle. Make self-analysis and try to understand whether it is your true love and it is worth fighting for or it is a mere intrigue or a wish to prove something to yourself and people around you. If it is your true love, you'd better move to another place of residence in order not come across people, who prevent you from normal living your life. But if it is just for fun, you'd better leave this venture. Don't waste your time. Have a deeper look at your partner. Is he/she deserves such superhuman efforts to cope with all obstacles and think if this person lives up to your expectations. |