Love and work The fact is that the majority of men work much more than they must because only thus they feel their importance for their family and society. All men's life can be divided into two main parts: work and love. As a rule work is situated on the first place in the list of priorities. Women sometimes don't realize that for many men work is more important and attractive than the best lover. Men sometimes fail to admit this fact too. When a man talks about his work, he usually cheers up, becomes excited and so on. This is a very familiar situation but think whether it can be applied to men's talks about their wives? Hm, it happens seldom. Men explain that they work hard for the sake of their families to provide their children with welfare, to provide them with their radiant future, etc. They are insincere. In fact they work to feel satisfaction from their achievements. Men are very much inspired by success and career. If they achieve results, they are ready to work even more hard. The work determines men's individuality, gives a chance to demonstrate their significance for the society. Each man can be a good father, family man, perfect lover, etc., but all this is secondary for the man's nature. For men their families are a place to relax form work, to gain strength, to have a good time, and so on. These activities are loved by men very much but their aim is to have a rest in order to return to work like a giant refreshed. Work doesn't always give a man moral satisfaction and sometimes is boring for him. But even during the periods of moral and intellectual decline work gives men the sense of their importance and a sort of satisfaction. Despite all difficulties, a man can go on, because he has the most valuable thing in his life – his work. This is a very important psychological factor for a man. All of us know that if we have problems in our lives, we must relax, divert our attention from them and think about something pleasant. They advise us to think about summer, seaside, nature, etc. For a man in this case the most pleasant thoughts will be about his work. It doesn't mean that thinking about current tasks at work brings pleasure to a man. Men like to think about their achievements, career, success, promotion and so on. Men's welfare, their physical and mental heath depends on work so much that in case of dismissal men can commit a suicide. Note, that they rarely take their own life after wife's death or death of one of their relatives. When a man retires, he begins to deteriorate and put on years visually much faster than during his working period. Retirement very often leads to health problems, alcoholism, drug addiction and committing crimes. A man who has lost his job looks like a miserable creature, which needs support, protection, love and endearment. That is why when your husband is irritated by problems at work, never be angry with him for that, it will only aggravate his state. The ability to give moral support to your beloved person, when he is in trouble is one of the highest manifestations of love. |