Love towards married men Conjugal infidelity occurs very often. Surely, you have heard about such life situations from your friends and acquaintances. Have you ever talked to a person who has already gone through extra-marital relations? Do you think that you will never come across the same problems? No one can be safe from them. No matter how well-bred and decent you are, you may also be involved into this affair. Curiously enough, the majority of people, who have extra-marital relations didn't expect that they were able to accomplish such a deed. As a rule, each person doesn't know all his/her inclinations until he/she will come across the appropriate circumstances. That is why never condemn women who are in love with married men and never condemn men, who are in love with married women though the last combination happens not so often as it is much easier to find a single woman and avoid many problems. If you blame a person for something, what you have never experienced yourself, life will teach you and show that it is not so easy as you imagine it and will teach you to avoid value judgments. Extra-marital relations are doomed to failure in most cases. They hurt your pride as married people often prefer to preserve their marital relationship and avoid risks. They usually take into account their own feelings and profits only and are reluctant to think about both their spouses and their lovers. People often invent lame excuses when they start extra-marital relationship in order to lull their conscience. One of them is the conviction that if an official relationship is exhausted, there is no need to preserve it. But it is wrong to rush things. You'd better wait for complete break-up before you begin to build new relationship. There are people, who are not so resolute and fatal and are accustomed to be grateful for small favours. They are ready to keep their relationship in secret, see each other once or twice a week and maintain this conspiracy for a long time. But this can't last for a long time, as thus there is a risk to be left alone in the long run. Besides this constant instability and secrecy begins to bore sooner or later. The more you date a married person, the more time you spend for nothing and deprive yourself of an opportunity to regulate your life and risk to meet your old age without a life companion. Some women insist on immediate break-up with their lover's wife and their soon marriage. It is not the best variant, as it seems at first sight. Not all men are ready for divorce and prefer to maintain this imaginable welfare. Even if a man is resolute enough to break up with his wife, it means that he will be able to do the same with you in future. Don't think that it will never happen because you are so nice. Don't be too hopeful. The only tip in this situation is to wait. If his marriage is doomed to failure, let it come to its end. If you interfere with the course of events and try to rush things, you will regret later. |